When I bought my '04 it had just 3000 miles on it and the seller had a lift in his garage. I put the car on the lift and went over every inch of the car looking for evidence of damage or paint. I was satisfied at that point and did not need to drive the car.
When I sold the car, The weather made the decision for me, it was February and there was an TON OF SALT on the roads (they were white). I told the buyer before he came, "The car is in a heated garage and you can spend as much time as you want going over the car, I'll even pull it outside and run it, but my cars do not get driven in the winter on salty roads".
BTW I don't think I would mind a check ride (no spirited driving) if I were in the car. If I were to let a buyer take a spirited drive, I would need to have the money in hand and I would not want to be in the car, Don't need to have him slide the car sideways into a pole on my side (human nature is to hit something on the opposite side you are sitting) and kill my dumb ***.