I don't think anyone is suggesting that you should hold back on launch. I launch at 3000rpm with 0 wheel hop (now that my broken mounts are fixed, and with 3.55 gears). And you are certainly fair in your expectation that with only 9000 miles on it, the bushings and mounts should all be in good working order. These are things that do cause wheel hop if they're not fully sound.
The thing is, most of us don't have issues with wheel hop, if our equipment is in good order, tire pressures are right, we warm up the tires, and roll-on the throttle. So, we're trying to help you figure out what's different with yours.
The only other thing that I can think of to suggest that you check, is to get a full four-wheel alignment, including thrust angle. Maybe something got bumped out of spec. Cost you about $250 at your dealer, and if it works, it's money well spent because it'll improve your handling too. Bonus.