When I used to Admin, I never really believed in putting people on Mod Status or Lifetime bans, always considered both to be a bit of over kill. However, with that said. I did believe in 1 week, 2 week and 1 month suspensions (that included a reason the member could see so they knew why). I found that method to be more effective as the member was responsible for their own time off depending on just how hard they wanted to push a given limit or warnings that were issued.
The hardest part was doing all that and being friends with the people that were sometimes the worst of the worst and not being friends with ones that have occasional infractions and being fair to everyone. It's a mighty thin line to balance on. The added pressure from different members as to why and how come one was allowed to stay and not banned for longer or just the opposite that the infraction didn't warrant a longer time off. Those that have modded know these problems and know the frustrations. Mods can't be online every second and don't see every post... Bad things are missed and when they are it's seen as an accepted post and OK... when in fact, it's not!
The hardest part is providing an avenue for redemption and allowing someone with a questionable track record to continue. Went through a hell of a fracture in the community when I did that for a member. Am I glad I did it, yes and no. The member became a model citizen and treated everyone well. On the other hand, lost a few really good members in the process. In the long run, I lost.
Just thought I would add a little perspective for the other side of the curtain and that was on a forum that couldn't even dream to see the kind of activity this forum had in it's prime
Jeff
The hardest part was doing all that and being friends with the people that were sometimes the worst of the worst and not being friends with ones that have occasional infractions and being fair to everyone. It's a mighty thin line to balance on. The added pressure from different members as to why and how come one was allowed to stay and not banned for longer or just the opposite that the infraction didn't warrant a longer time off. Those that have modded know these problems and know the frustrations. Mods can't be online every second and don't see every post... Bad things are missed and when they are it's seen as an accepted post and OK... when in fact, it's not!
The hardest part is providing an avenue for redemption and allowing someone with a questionable track record to continue. Went through a hell of a fracture in the community when I did that for a member. Am I glad I did it, yes and no. The member became a model citizen and treated everyone well. On the other hand, lost a few really good members in the process. In the long run, I lost.
Just thought I would add a little perspective for the other side of the curtain and that was on a forum that couldn't even dream to see the kind of activity this forum had in it's prime
Jeff