Hi Steve & Jamie
Yes, it's neat that my day-to-day job applies to what I do for fun, also. And having these discussions with you guys that pay attention is pretty good, too. Ummm... what kind of grease do you use for reel mowers?
Steve, I do know that 15W-xx oils slow cranking speeds down. Most diesel oils also come in mineral 10W30, but it's difficult to find. No, I didn't know there was a 5W30 synthetic diesel (I knew of 0W-30s), that's cool! (pun intended.)
Yes, more additive is better, but it has to be formulated correctly. A diesel oil is formulated as a complete package, so all the extra goodies really are good and work together. In addition (another pun) the diesel oils run all the gasoline engine tests- and obvious pass- so they put the API SH or SJ claim on the bottle. They are not going to cause any problem. What worries the OEMs is when consumers use oil additives with crankcase oils; then "more" may be a problem because you can upset the balance and cause problems. Besides using the wrong types of additive (many oil additives still use obsolete gear oil chemistry) even more of the "right" chemistry may interfere or compete with the additives in the original oil.
Why would a diesel oil be better? Here's an example- you drive around, heat, fuel, and blowby find their way into the oil, create decomposition products and the oil starts getting darker. Dispersants in the oil (similar to dish detergents) keep these little nasties suspended in the oil so when you change the oil, the nasties are drained out. Diesel oils have to also contend with soot from the diesel combustion, so there is 2X or 3X the amount of dispersant - all more good stuff to help keep your gasoline engine cleaner. Further, diesel engines don't have precious metal catalysts, so there is no concern for the amount of phosphorus in the oil. The phosphorus is part of the anti-wear additive, which gasoline-only oils have a limit for (that will only continue to decrease.) That means diesel oils will have more anti-wear additive than gas-only oils. And the big deal for diesels is piston deposits - with life expectations of nearly a million miles, piston cleanliness is a prime concern. So diesel oils are formulated with roughly double the detergent level of passenger car engines.
Regarding the sulfur; I don't think sulfur in the oil causes any problems, I think it's the sulfur in the fuel. Fuel sulfur leads to piston skirt and ring land deposits, which leads to stuck rings, which leads to scuffing and wear - a typical long-term issue for over the road large engines.
Synthetics and any low-aromatic oils are not good solvents, which in one case is good. (This is bad when you can't dissolve the additives into the oil!) They tend to hold particulates in suspension well, and while I don't know about the particulate size, I have to go back to the dispersant additive; it's put in to keep any size particle floating (so it drains when you change your oil) and to keep particulates from agglomerating (forming bigger balls of abrasive materials.) I am no filter expert, but it makes sense to learn about filters and choose based on technical specs as well.
Oil drain intervals are like personal hygiene - I'll tell you what I do, but feel funny about telling you what to do. I target 3500 miles minimum, and feel fine if I can change it within the next 500 or so. Not only is that a huge cushion, having a 10 quart sump is another.