The 03 I just bought has 23,000 miles, and like my other Mopars (04 Ram 3500 and 07 SRT8 Superbee) the Dodge paint is showing the wear and tear of a driven car. The front valance has some nice chips, dings, and scrapes (the car is lowered, so this in inevitable). There are some very minor door dings and scratches on the hood. And, since it is black, these show. But, I keep it clean and nice, and it looks good. Nothing a good professional detailing can't handle (except maybe the valance.)
Cars are meant to be DRIVEN. I go to many shows, and see 30 and 40 year old survivors that are well maintained, and driven. Is the paint perfect? Not by a long shot. Do they still look good? You bet.
I would rather see a car with some dings and scratches, than some "garage queen" which never gets driven.