If youre not good at soldering, i am. Let me ask the painfully obvious question, did you ask AEM?
According to this auction http://www.ebay.com/itm/96-02-Dodge...ash=item3ad3971032:g:qnkAAOSwNyFWgJuD&vxp=mtr it looks like its a db9 connector to OBD-II connector.