My post was intended to solicit a robust response from you. The strategy succeeded. What I suggest is that you step back and take a breath. You are the new person here. The VCA Forum culture is easy to understand and fit into. Your posts seem to suggest that you think the existing, long time members and posters should adjust to you. That is not the was any large group works. There is an existing culture in the VCA. Try observing it; learning about it; and fitting into it. That culture may involve some male subculture joking and testing but it is a culture that also allows open and strident debate on many subjects in the non car sub forums. And despite that strident debate, we all remain friends.
Thank you for your civil response.
Your response states that "There is an existing culture in the VCA". I understand.
My ONLY point and or issue that was brought up (on topic of this thread) is that Senior/veteran " long time" members who are truly very helpful on this site ( no sarcasm) are alienating new members ( enthusiasts) with their degrading and derogatory comments. Fact.
I see that many other members come to the defense of Mr. Coloviper and others because they give a lot to the VCA boards and clubs. Fact and acknowledged.
And if a member contributes greatly, does that senior member now have the right to degrade, dismiss, insult, falsely slander, or intimidate or threaten a member who opposes a post based solely in opinion or fact ?
I do not think so. And this is why I am posting.
For any forum to continue to exist, and to continue to grow, this " existing culture of culture of the VCA" surely needs to accommodate opposing opinions.
Just IGNORE, or REBUT a Post..... do not degrade, insult, or discredit
the person posting. This VERY SIMPLE CONCEPT that allows so many OTHER forums to happily ATTRACT new members, which attracts new advertising, etc.
You state "Your (my)posts seem to suggest that you think the existing, long time members and posters should adjust to you"
I answer is , NO they should NEVER adjust to me. They should adjust to everyone else who has left as a result of the negative , degrading responses and personal attacks that just turn off any new people who post.
Vipperyalley.com and Viperforums.net would NEVER exist if the " existing culture of culture of the VCA" was different
REMEMBER - SIMPLE RULE:: If you see a post that you just hate, just REPLY, REBUT or IGNORE, BUT DO NOT attack or discredit the person posting it. As soon as you attack or discredit the person who posted it you have now alienated your members.
And if you (the forum) SUPPORTs contributing senior members by dissolving them of any responsibility when they feel they can freely attack a member instead of rebutting or ignoring their post , you will see this site shrink and Viperalley.com and Viperforum.net GROW.
VERY SIMPLE Lesson. Easy to learn. If you hate a post, REBUT it, REFUTE it, IGNORE it, BUT NEVER discredit or degrade the member who posted it. Focus on the actual Post and NOT on the person posting it.
I am always here to help. And thank you for your time. Always a pleasure to be a guest on this VCA forum.
And by the way, How is the weather down in Florida ? We are having a heat wave here in New York.