Sonny hit it right on, by real cars I mean those without super stiff race suspension.
Like I said, this is kind of a hard question to address via messaging.
Ground effects is a pretty efficient (lots of downforce for minimal drag) way to get downforce, which is why it is used at the top levels of motorsport. However, to get the kinds of numbers you see on an ORECA car, "stability of the aerodymaic platform" becomes paramount. That means those big downforce numbers are only achieved when the car is precisely oriented to the air. A real car , which dives under braking, squats under acceleration, and rolls during cornering isn't stable enough to maintain those big downforce numbers. You can still get some downforce, but it comes at a price.
How about a real world example? It is likely that a GTS could generate similar downforce to a Ferrari 355, a real car with underbody ground effects, making about 400 lbs of downforce at 160 MPH. However, to do this would require a full undertray and a carefully designed diffuser, one which could tolerate the roll, yaw and pitch angles of the GTS. Seems easy enough, except once you've enclosed the underbody, you'll need to find a way to cool the trans and diff (right now they're cooled by the air flowing under the car). Where will you mount those coolers? You'll also have to find another place to exhaust the underhood air (right now most of it goes under the car). The GTSR vented hood works well for that, but I'm not sure it satisfies the "subtle" requirement of the original post. In short, you'll need to expend a great deal of effort and dollars to get a rather minimal amount of downforce.
Ground effects is certainly a worthwhile venture for professional race teams, even possibly for a serious VRL racer. For the rest of us, I think its a poor application of resources.
You're requirements are identical to those I investigated. However, when we did the numbers on the package I mentioned in my previous post (skirts and spats), the car's owners said "not enough" and opted instead for wings and splitters. Not subtle, but very effective.
Regarding the interaction of wings and ground effects, they can, and often do, help one another's performance. However, each can be effective when used alone.
Again, the most important thing is to have the appropriate parts for your specific application and budget.
P.S. A diffuser works by helping a low pressure area "communicate" with the car's underbody. Most people think of only rear diffusers, however they can be located just about anywhere. Basically you're trying to create a situation where the underbody air can quickly escape from beneath the car. The better you're able to do this, the more "suction" you create.