Kai is it tough to get the car moving in 1st? Does it buck alot?
Tilton 12.5lb flywheel is much too light for street use, you will kill your clutch life. Tilton heavyweight [still lighter than OEM] is the way to go.
Remember, with a Tilton, not only are you losing the flywheel, but also the pressure plate altogether. The pressure plate accounts for 50% of the inertia for starters. The "lightweight" Tilton has only 15% of the mass moment of inertia of the stock assembly, while something like a Fidanza+OEM clutch will retain about 80%.
I hope that puts it into perspective on just HOW big of a change the Lightweight is.